Pavini Moray on setting goals

Here’s a quote from Pavini Moray - check out their (note: gender neutral pronoun) website - especially free e-book, “Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation”
“I’m sitting down today, and planning how I want 2015 to be for me erotically, and I remembered that I have a present for you! It is a tool to help you plan your erotic year.
Something I’m learning is that we get to have the things that we: 
ask for
, plan for,
 practice doing or having,
 or are willing to receive.

If I don’t have something that I want, it’s most likely because I don’t have a plan, I’m disorganized, or I’m scared.”